Learning to manage…

There has been little, or no, escape from what has been on everyone’s mind recently.  This current virus pandemic has the world in a deathly grip, affecting so many physically and tormenting most of us emotionally.  How do we get through this?

Personally, I don’t know if I am getting through.  I certainly talk a good game, do my best in being cautiously-optimistic, but it mostly ends there.  That damn fear of the unknown sets in and shakes my ability to maintain a pragmatic attitude. 

I definitely watch newscasts far too often, just trying to stay informed, hoping to hear some glimmer of hope, even learn something new with regard to treatment and future preventatives for COVID-19.  The time spent not working and somewhat sequestered at home has given me more time to write.  A positive.  Conversely, this expanse of free time brings along too much time to think…and remember.  Kind of a double-edged sword.  At least for me.

What I need to do is just dive-in, head first, and busy myself with projects that I keep on lists in my office.  Yes, I’m a compulsive list-maker and I’m good at it!  I even keep said lists, in files arranged by dates, and review them often just to see what, if anything, I’ve managed to accomplish.  At present, I’ve accomplished moving that file box into a closet and thought, as I was closing the door, of that last scene from Raiders of the Lost Ark. 

Raiders storage

But…this week, these past few days, have taken the proverbial wind from my sails.  A very dear friend is currently undergoing virus treatment, on a ventilator and receiving Hydroxychloroquine along with Z-Pak.  Each day, brings another update from his family and a glimmer of hope.  Any thought of breathing a sigh of relief  is out of the question, the worst is far from over and the situation could change in a matter of minutes, even seconds.  And, in the last few days, friends lost their beloved aunt to Coronavirus.  None could be at her side when she passed and this heartbroken family now cannot gather to grieve and say good-bye at a time when families need to support each other.

I’ve learned, in fact, I think we all have, that families will quietly join together where they can to celebrate Passover and Easter.  All will welcome Spring, birth and rebirth,  according to their religious traditions.   All have learned that, at this tumultuous moment in time, taking responsibility for themselves, the community and the world is a shared, crucial, obligation.

easter_passover-315x240

 

workshop-button-1From Mama Kat’s Writers Workshop:

What do you do to manage anxiety or uncertainty caused by the current Covid19 climate?

Write about something you learned this week!

I combined two writing prompts into my post this week.  One just seemed to blend well into the other.  As much as I wanted to write about anything other than COVID-19, there is just no escaping it!  Possibly I’m not allowing myself to take this pandemic lightly, as many people did, early in its assault on our country.  Once everyone lets down their guard and becomes complacent, the virus wins! 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

When I first looked at the list of suggested writing prompts for this week, I somehow latched

 

Signature

They’re going back!!

 

I just couldn’t help myself and had to put up this old commercial from Staples for every parent out there who is counting the days until school starts again.  Until today, I chuckled each time it aired on television and “they’re going back!” was a celebratory phrase shared in my circle of friends at the end of many long summers.

The focus is mainly on the daddy in this video as he gleefully skips and down the store aisles gathering school supplies; in the background,  Andy William’s soothing voice sings a classic Christmas carol.

Such happiness…

That was, until today, when I looked at the sad faces of the two small children in this commercial and thought for a while.  Suddenly, it wasn’t so funny as those frowns represent more than the end of  summer vacation.  I saw anxiety in their sad expressions.  Apart from new teachers and homework, it was more like they were thinking about who would be the class bully this year.  What boy or girl would be the one to hurl insults, make threats or worse, on the playground, in the halls or on the daily bus ride to and from school.

Why do kids bully?  One reason given is because he (or she) has a deep troubling need of his own and is picked on or feels that he does not have a very successful life.  And, too many kids fall into a trap by thinking that bullying is just “the cool thing to do,” especially in front of their friends.  Psychologists and educators feel that adults don’t give children the skills they need to be able to tolerate and appreciate the differences of others. 

Plenty of reasons, even excuses, and it boils down to the fact that school shouldn’t be a tense and fearsome place for any child; the start of a new year should represent the excitement of new beginnings and fresh starts. 

For now, there are more fireflies to catch and still time to sleep late.  Vacations will come to a close as many children return to school with happy memories, summer smiles and the anticipation of learning something new and unknown. 

 

Signature