
Possibly, feeling a great deal of uncertainty is something many of us feel when we land on the back nine of our lives. The days of looking into a mirror and seeing only our image, not our inevitable mortality starting back, well, they’ve dwindled down significantly. That was a bonus of being young, never having to look too far forward, especially when our feet were firmly planted in whatever the present had to offer. Now, as the years continue to speed by, looking forward is a doubtful path.
Is it retrospective? Sweeping thoughts that bring so many questions about all we might have done differently on so many levels. Memories in the form of music remind us of simpler times when we had a large open window of growth and exploration ahead of us. Growing older brings about a range of concerns and doubts about our physical abilities, serious illnesses, loss of our independence, financial security, social and emotional well-being and loss.
Wrapped up in our doubts is the fear of death and dying. We have so many thoughts about mortality and the end of life that we often fail to find meaning and purpose in life, reflect on our legacies and accept that death is a natural part of the human experience.
Growing older doesn’t necessarily mean a decline in our quality of life and I personally attempt to accept and acknowledge the inevitable change by reframing any in a positive manner. Staying mentally and physically active while enjoying social connections helps to address any challenges and embrace the aging process, living a productive life as long as possible. Still, the doubts linger, gathering like a crowd of unanswered questions, as life’s hourglass keeps measuring the passage of time.

From the Writer’s Workshop: What are you currently doubting in your life?