Term of affection…

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She always called me “Pinky”, well into my adult years.  That label of affection was far better than the one bestowed on me by my father who called me “Doc”. 

“Doc”?  Certainly not a nickname for a girl, in fact, hearing it always made me cringe.  WTF was he thinking?

But, back to Pinky and my late Aunt Eleanor, my mother’s only sister and someone I was always close with growing up.  She got me and was in my corner during my difficult childhood.  Aunt El gave me that name because I was always, always, dressed in pink as a baby.  Back in the day, children were outfitted in very basic, even subdued, colors…pink, blue, maize, soft green and white.  In present times, baby and toddler clothing HAS to make a fashion statement and, of course, focus on being gender-neutral in many cases.  And, I won’t even get into the baby photo trend where infants are stuffed into some pretty garish theatrical props for their early pictures.

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Whatever.  I was Pinky and that favorite aunt was the only one who ever called me that until the day she left this troubled earth.  And, for some reason, I despise this color. Probably the last photograph ever taken of me wearing pink was from my senior prom.

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I burned that dress but…still have the shoes.

 

workshop-button-1From Mama Kat’s Writer’s Workshop…Write about a nickname you were given at some point.

I realized, after I hit “publish” that I could have combined two prompts with this one.  Obviously, what I wrote was about a nickname but, there is also a mistake I could have shared and…I wasn’t a child when I made it.  Said “mistake” is in my prom photo but, what resulted in that particular situation was something/someone to be very thankful for.  Enough said.

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Cockeyed optimism…

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And…here we all are, more than one year after this virus insanity began.  At least most of us, and I’m not waxing sarcastically here.  My heart hurts still for those lost from COVID-19’s rampage, and for their families and friends.

In March of 2020, as the panic set-in, well, make that started sinking-in, people valiantly started adjusting to being at home, wrapping themselves in a cocoon of safety, and living with a fair amount of fear.  There was still so much unknown about this virus last year and, frankly, as far as I’m concerned, it’s still a ludicrous crap shoot with each news release and conflicting opinions shared by the medical field and media.

Looking back over my posts, almost to this same date a year later, I’m once again doing what I did last April, cleaning, re-organizing and purging.  But what’s different this time is that it’s for happier reasons, other than just passing my “virus-avoidance incarceration” time.  Family is coming, and not soon enough!  My Florida family, to be exact.  After not seeing them for two years, I’m pulling out all the stops, still proceeding with recommended caution, and plan to enjoy as much normalcy as possible.

Wow, that’s a loaded word…normalcy.  We have the old normal, temporary normal and, of course, new normal.  That last one sucks lemons, let me tell you.  I can’t wait for one year from today to write about what I was doing this year and how things have changed. 

Will we still be hiding behind masks? 

Was the vaccination process successful in controlling the virus? 

Will we be lining-up for booster shots to reinforce the biological preparations that were unceremoniously jammed into our arms? 

Did Joe Biden stop reading from Etch A Sketch when he gave speeches? 

Did Maxine Waters get shown the door in Congress? 

Oops, sorry, politics just slipped out.  My bad.  I feel that we’re moving past this damn virus blockade, slowly but surely.  Call me a cockeyed optimist. Sure, there will be setbacks ahead but none comparable to what this world suffered in 2020.  I have to believe that.  We all do.

 

workshop-button-1From Mama Kat’s Writer’s Workshop…Throwback Thursday: Choose a photo or blog post from a previous April…how have things changed?

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More…taxes!

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Taxes.

At times, a necessary evil.

Necessary with respect that both the filing and subsequent payment of local, state and government taxes is mandatory.  Especially the government.  Never, ever, eff with the IRS.  And, here in New York, the DOS is renowned for processing errors which often end up in a battle of wits vs. a computer glitch from the state financial offices.  No matter how perfectly taxpayers cross their t’s and dot their i’s…inevitably, the transmission of tax paperwork will be confirmed on the taxpayer’s end…but not on the state’s rear end.

Yes, a healthy, sarcastic attitude is a must when dealing with the bureaucracy in New York.

So, in short, this is what I’ve been working on this week, last week, and will be, for a few weeks to come.  Personal returns, corporate returns, bottle returns.

Oh wait.  That last one is a story for another day.  Once taxes are done.

 

workshop-button-1From Mama Kat’s Writer’s Workshop…Share something you worked on this week.

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