Memories and sketches…

Memories. They have a way of popping up at random times in life. A reason? I’d like to think so, maybe more of a reminder, a needed lookback when you just need to recall things positive, perhaps?

Recently, The Husband (as he’s known in my writing world) needed linseed oil for a repair project. I recalled my high school art case, tucked away up in our attic and gave him exact “PPS” (my version of navigation) directions. Up he went, promptly located the wooden case, and brought it down, asking “when was the last time you opened this?”. I ignored him, and for good reason; he’s like our attic police chief, each time he ventures up there, there is some interrogation from above as to the origins/necessity of every damn thing he ends up climbing over. Come on now, it’s an attic, you know, the epicenter of storage for things seasonal, useful and plumb forgotton about? Kind of like the center console or glove compartment in the car, or, that one drawer in the kitchen?

In any event, my art case was handed to me, the linseed oil given to the attic warden and I pulled out a sketch book while thinking back to art work I left at my late mother’s home years ago. Sadly, during her rampage with Alzheimer’s, much of my work was discarded by her, mainly because she had no idea where it came from or who it belonged to…that person being me.

Tucked in between the pages of the book were two charcoal sketches I did, way back in the 60’s, both of sailboats. One sketch was of a vessel belonging to my late father, a 36′ Gaff Rigged Cutter and that bit of artwork was done from a photograph taken during a cruise on Long Island Sound, here in New York. The odd memory which presented itself was the date I again found these old sketches, July 7th, the very date my father purchased his sailboat, back in 1963.

Memories can be an emotional road trip; even bittersweet ones are better than nothing.

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L. O. P.

Got your attention, did I? I know, I know, you might just be reading the title and wondering what in hell I’m rambling on about now. Read on.

Trust me, there’s nary a ramble to be shared. Not really.

The Husband is now semi-retired and the projects have been stacking up for a few years since he’s been around our homestead more frequently. Honestly, I’m not really complaining; we built our home some thirty-seven years ago, a major undertaking, and several “honey do” projects ended up languishing on life’s back burner.

That has changed.

All these years later, the process first involves extensive research on YouTube, or consulting with several contractor friends, prior to heading over to Home Depot or Lowe’s. In fact, if The Husband doesn’t check in with either home-everything center weekly, they call to check up on him. It’s a symbiotic relationship.

Last year, the cedar siding on our home was repaired (effing woodpeckers), re-caulked, hand-sanded and…re-stained. The bastard birds tend to peck away at cedar in need of staining/sealing; the attraction wanes, even disappears, once the refinishing is complete. In case you were wondering, yes, he sanded the entire house, stem to stern, using a hand sander. Yes, I applaud his brilliant work but question his sanity. Daily.

Attention was recently turned to our front entrance and railroad tie walls. Keep in mind, more than 35 years ago, wood was treated with creosote, as such, it has survived these past years very well, with a few ties in need of replacement, and restaining. One idea begot another and we now have railings on our lower entry steps, topped off with charming solar lights on each handrail post. I share, for your admiration, a photo of TH’s brilliant work.

By the way, L.O.P. stands for Long Overdue Projects; at this moment, I shudder to think what lies ahead. He’s back on YouTube again.

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Endless sleep…

Writing, anything, often sends me in different directions, especially when my focus is distracted.  In some ways, that tells me that I wasn’t all that invested in the subject matter in front of me at that moment.  Moment…became the operative word surrounding a tragedy and the loss of adventurers, likely at 7:08 this morning, somewhere near Newfoundland.

Part of me understands the need to find out more about historical events, that’s why there are museums, libraries and other sites in place for our explorations.  My family and I stood on hallowed ground at the 9/11 Memorial site here in New York, finding ourselves wrapped in the eerie moments of silence, still unable to move past the horrors of that heartbreaking day. How much different was our experience from this Titan voyage? We witnessed the smoke from the collapse of the World Trade Center, we had friends and family caught in the terror of that day, we joined millions of others in prayers and tears.

What I disagree with is this business-oriented, human invasion, of the resting place of over 1500 souls via submersible tours, available to those willing to pay a hefty price for their voyeurism. So much has already been recorded and salvaged from the Titanic and the ability to peer through photographs and documents is readily available.  The need to trespass into this particular graveyard, to me, is a lack of respect for those who perished in the freezing waters of the Atlantic.


Sadly, five people have now become another page in Titanic’s history.  I hope they offered a prayer for all who perished in 1912…just as we do now, for them, at this moment, as they drift off in their endless sleep.



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