I have a favorite holiday movie from many years ago. Who doesn’t, you think while wondering just why the heck I’m bringing this up in August.
Let me explain.
It wasn’t the entire movie but one specific line that just flew into my head when I received a friend request on Facebook. As I responded to this new/old friend from years ago I thought…”it’s happening!”
I’ll explain further.
48 days from this very moment (less a few hours) my 50th high school reunion will be in full swing. Over these last few months, classmates have been reaching out to each other with many of us learning so much about the lives we’ve lost touch with over these past years. We spend time laughing, sharing and consoling as we rekindle friendships or, in my case, getting the chance to talk with those I once admired from a distance. We are all bubbling over with excited anticipation as our big night draws closer.
So, how does this Christmas movie play in to all of this?
Well, at first I was hesitant, even ambivalent, about attending my reunion as I was always a bit of an outsider in high school. I wrote about it last year, then gave it a great deal of thought. The passing of years brings so many changes and attitudes can remain unmovable or they can soften, become eager to explore, and make up for lost time. I wrote about that as well and remembered this 1977 holiday movie called The Gathering which was about a family separated by indifference and arguments who comes together again for a reunion. At one point, the father, played by Ed Asner, exclaims “it’s happening” as everyone agrees to share the Christmas holiday.
Now, on September 20, 2014, a very large group of friends, some who were like family to each other during many years of school, will meet again for a very special gathering, a celebration of what we were and all we’ve become. We will miss those who are unable to attend and softly speak of friends we’ve lost.
Yes. It’s happening!
