Where did the merry go?

It’s over.

As quickly as we finished the last of Thanksgiving leftovers and flipped the calendar page to the month of December, the holidays breezed past like a runaway train.

For me, and maybe not for all, the saddest part of the Christmas season is taking down all the beautiful decorations, inside and outside our home.   Right now, a still graceful Concolor Fir stands in our living room, emptied of its many lights, ornaments, garland and vintage tree top star.  Still fresh and barely losing its needles, it looks now as it did the Sunday our family went to a tree farm, spending hours walking through acres of trees on our very own “Griswold Family Christmas Tree” expedition.  Three vehicles full of people and Christmas sweater-wearing dogs on a cold rainy day spent trudging up and down muddy hills with cups of hot apple cider and saws in hand.  Great fun and a wonderful memory for our grandchildren.

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And so the holiday madness began.  Shopping, wrapping, cooking, combined with rushing through each day like a madwoman.  Christmas Eve, after our traditional Feast of the Seven Fishes dinner, I finally found myself sitting and enjoying our festive surroundings.  And reality slowly crept in.  Within hours, everything merry would once again come to an end.  Soon, paper, ribbons and gift tags would be strewn everywhere and the last of Christmas music would slowly disappear from the airwaves. 

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Today, as I wrapped fragile ornaments and packed away hundreds of lights, I wondered if it was just my getting older, with more focus on how quickly time keeps passing, or have the holidays become so consuming in our lives that we don’t make the time to simply stop…and enjoy the merry…while we can.

 

 

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Autumn…a second Spring!

“Winter is an etching, spring a watercolor, summer an oil painting and autumn a mosaic of them all.”

– Stanley Horowitz

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Almost overnight, the landscape around us blooms with the most incredible colors.  Especially here in New York as September departs and October takes center stage.

We all need a change, a departure from the chaos of daily news items and endless social media debates.  Time to focus on the holidays ahead, however we celebrate, and enjoy the wonder of what life gives us. 

Fall isn’t a death, as some might have you believe.  Rather, it is a celebration of life which surrounds us along with the preparation for somewhat of a second chance as a new year approaches.   Each step on some crunchy fallen leaf brings back childhood memories of jumping in huge piles of what Autumn was leaving behind, of crisp apples and cider, of Halloween and Thanksgiving.  Each step reminds us that new beginnings await us in just a few short weeks.  The cycle of life continues on its inevitable journey as nature says good-bye for this year.

Celebrate the season!

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From Mama Kat’s Workshop…10 reasons why you’re glad it’s Fall.

There are just so many lovely quotes about Fall, and the photos…breathtaking.  For my 10, I decided to share some of my favorites.

I’m thankful to live in an area of our country where Autumn often takes center stage with its magical display.  And, I meant what I stated, about needing change, an escape even, from all of the current worldly debate.  If we all took a step back and reflected on just how quickly this year has passed and the amount of time that was spent on being so completely adversarial with each other…we just might take the time to enjoy the fleeting moments of this and every season.

 

 

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Sounds…

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However slight, sudden noises in the night manage to wake me.  It’s been like this since she lived with us and hasn’t changed in the twelve years since she passed.  Every creak from the attic or sound of footsteps takes me back and puts me on alert.

Some nights, she’s still down the hall, talking to someone who isn’t there.  The soft conversations last, on and off, for hours and often escalate into full-blown yelling episodes with someone standing in the shadows of her mind.

When all seems to become quiet, underlying noises emerge, almost like a forewarning of what is to follow.  Soon, one more escape out the door.  Back to what little she could remember from all that Alzheimer’s had taken away.

Once again, I sit up in bed and listen for five or ten minutes, waiting for her door to open.

 

workshop-button-1From Mama Kat’s….Listen to the sounds in your house for 5 or 10 minutes. Write about what you hear.

 

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