Now and later…

Procrastinator.  Okay.  I’ll admit it.  Me…to a “T”!

It all starts with a simple choice between my working now on a given project and doing anything else: working on a different project, doing something fun or doing nothing at all. The decision to work on something is driven by how much I value accomplishing the project in that moment – what psychologists call its subjective value. And procrastination, in psychological terms, is what happens when the value of doing something else outweighs the value of working now.  It’s also the delay, or avoidance, of a task or a decision against my own intentions.  You know, waiting to mail a letter, respond to an email, organize paperwork, clean out closets…purge unneeded objects from your life.  And, the amount of time it took me to respond to this writing prompt.

Hey, I’m well aware that most people procrastinate but, we aren’t ALL procrastinators!  It may seem okay to put things off because that helps us avoid unpleasant tasks or decisions, at least in the short-term.  That, in itself, may not even seem like a major issue because, as we all know, eventually, most things still seem to get done.  Most.

I will readily admit that I shy away from tasks and decisions because they are unpleasant and I just don’t need the hassle.  When I am ready to face such situations, I’ll keep postponing what’s involved until I’m in the mood and have the energy levels ready for the task.  Sometimes, I just need to feel comfortable in order to function properly.  Very often, I work within a given level of stress and plunge, head-first, to get the damn job done!  The end result is always a good feeling of satisfaction, I must admit.  Taking a step back to gather all the negatives involved helps me to deal with an issue and that gives me the momentum to get through most of the tasks at hand.  In a twisted way, I kind of enjoy the adrenaline rush I get when when I race to get something finished before the deadline.

Now that I’ve given a brief overview on procrastination, I was supposed to write about something I’m putting off.  Something?  One thing?  Are you kidding me?  Okay, a brief list:  Corporate tax summary paperwork, business website revamping, club Bylaw review and updating, sending packages of “stuff” to my Florida family and putting all the Christmas paraphernalia away. 

Do not judge me, especially on that last one. 

 

 

workshop-button-1From Mama Kats Writer’s Workshop…Write about something you’re putting off.

Maybe I’m a procrastinator, maybe I’m not.  I’ll just have to put such thoughts aside and think about them on another day.

 

 

 

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Give me a break…

Gimme a break

Write about the word “break”.

Seems easy enough.  I mean, one can break a leg (or some other body part), possibly break an object (just not in anger, please) or, in Judaism, break-fast with the meal eaten after fast days such as Yom Kippur and Tisha B’Av.  Or, plain and simple, just take a break, in general.  Kind of a pregnant-pause, so to speak, which should be then followed by something significant.

Well, that’s not so easy.  All of my energies to write and bring forth something earth-shattering or even meaningful, a tad more than one week after Christmas, have long departed the ranch.  And, it’s not just me, folks.  So many people I’ve spoken with are slowly climbing out from under all the holiday madness that seemed to fly by at warp speed.  It’s like the holidays came, went, conquered, and left millions of exhausted survivors to now start undoing every last festive touch that seemed to take us so much time to put in place.

I just feel the need in having to blame something and that lies on the calendar for 2019.  We all know that Thanksgiving is celebrated on the 4th Thursday in November but, in 2019, with November 1st being on a Friday, that placed the traditional 4th Thursday of the month into the #5 Thursday slot in November.  Got that?

Fair warning…this same date-situation will take place in 2024 when Thanksgiving will fall on November 28th.  Again.  Until that date, we’re good to go and should all be in fine shape to dive, head-first, into the holiday season.

You’re welcome and…Happy New Year!

 

workshop-button-1From Mama Kat’s Writers Workshop…What were you blogging about a year ago? What has changed since then?
This post was from a tad more than one year ago; it was focused on the word “break” and I thought it worth sharing again because it kind of fit this current writing prompt.  And it made me laugh, just for a moment, at the “What has changed” part of the prompt. 

One year ago, when I wrote this, I ranted about a hectic holiday season.  Poor me.  One year ago, I don’t think many of us, if any, could have possibly imagined what a horrific year 2020 would turn out to be…and still is in this newborn year of 2021.  So many lives, hopes, wishes and dreams were crushed in the past year but, if anything, most of us have managed to survive. 

At least for now.

 

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A moment, long ago…

An old photograph that captured a moment in time, insignificant to others who may look at it. 

 

Me at Hudson Park

Snow in the background, obviously a cold day and a little girl with somewhat of a “pained” look on her face.  Was it from the hat tied too tightly under her chin or the straps on her Mary Jane shoes causing discomfort?  No mittens? 

Or something more?

As the subject matter on that January day in 1949, I can still recall what I was thinking…and feeling.  Old photos are funny that way.  We can forget so many things but one image can transport us back in time in a matter of seconds.  In that background was my father, scolding me to stop wiggling around while my mother took pictures with her Brownie camera.  I was cold, my hands were freezing, my ankles hurt and I remember how that little woolen hat was rubbing under my chin.

And…I had to go to the bathroom!

The photo session ended, I was abruptly removed and replaced to the back seat of my father’s car, to be lectured from the front seat, that I would never again be allowed to drink a n y t h i n g before a Sunday, or any, family expedition.

 

workshop-button-1From Mama Kat’s Writer’s Workshop…Throwback Thursday! Find an old photo and share the backstory!  Oddly enough, when I pulled up this photo for the writing prompt, memories just came flooding-in.  My mother purchased the coat and hat set I wore from Arnold Constable, a long-ago, favorite, department store in our town.  I despised the outfit…especially the leggings that came with it…all made of the itchiest wool known to man.  At least it seemed that way to me. 

 

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