Reverberation…

Music is part of everyone’s life, it’s everywhere. Today, one of my favorite songs, “American Girl” by Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers, was playing on our Sonos system, which, in recent months, has gone through some asinine upgrades resulting in horrific performance resulting in both consumer outrage and a twenty-five percent decline in the company’s stock performance! That is a sad story and accompanying rant which I’m saving for another day. Meanwhile, back to Tom Petty whose October 20th birthday I recently noted on social media as one more year since his passing has come around. Most, if not all of Tom Petty’s music feels so right and hits me in a way that’s hard to describe, bringing mixed feelings of relaxation and stimulation, leaving me to wonder why we love the songs we do.

Some research has shown that we can listen to our favorite songs over and over, never getting bored with said repetition. Music tends to bring mixed emotions at times, hitting some emotional cord inside of us so we play a particular song more. Music has always been an important part of my life and, over the years, my taste in it has changed exponentially. The music I choose reflects who I am and the many different aspects of my life.

Clinically speaking, we listen to certain songs repeatedly because they activate the reward system in our brain, releasing dopamine and generating a kind of addictive process. Since certain songs make us feel good, we want to listen to them again and, when we know a song very well, an intense discharge of dopamine occurs in our brain when we anticipate certain parts of the song. This doesn’t happen when we listen to music we dislike and we then choose to gravitate to the well-loved songs that make our brains light up.

I find this all so interesting as I sit here with music running through my head and I think about some songs that are special, at least to me. Some, I will play over and over again when I’m driving. My finger repeatedly presses forward, then reverse, on the steering wheel control as I go along. For some reason, those chosen few songs stimulate a different brain process than any of the other tunes on my extensive playlist. That feeling we get from our best-loved music is very cool! Admit it.

Before I forget, a random list of what I feel are the top ten best songs of all time. Most of this list is music by Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers, starting with “The Waiting”, “You Got Lucky”, “Don’t Do Me Like That”, “Room at the Top” and, of course, “American Girl”. I’ll also throw out Linkin Park’s “Leave Out All the Rest”, Gary Moore’s, “Still Got the Blues”, Sia’s “My Snowman and Me”, System of a Down’s “Toxicity” and Muse’s “Supermassive Black Hole”.

Rest assured, the “repeat” button is activated when each one is played.

From the Writer’s Workshop…List the top ten best songs of all time, according to you.

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A choice…

We often struggle to share a story and, frankly, if that fear isn’t in place, we may well be in the minority.


Let’s face it, as hard as we try, we just cannot be anyone else, doing so defeats the purpose of us being who we are and of sharing all that makes us unique. Being someone else in order to fit into any accepted norm in the eyes and minds of others impacts our ability to walk our own path and stand out from the crowd. The underlying goal is always focused on avoiding rejection and surviving.


To achieve a fulfilling life, we all damn well need to walk our own path, stand out, often keeping a good distance from the crowd, while allowing our unique strengths to shine. At times, we all need to step back and realize that many people do want to connect with you, hear your opinions or consider your ideas even if there is some underlying disagreement and that, in itself, can be healthy as we set any fear aside and move forward. It helps to create a common ground of understanding, especially in present times when this can be considered a gift given the constant political diatribes being hurled at everyone, in every direction.


Then again, that damn fear can turn around and we feel that it will never leave, in itself, not the problem but how we relate to that fear definitely is. We can either give into our fears and doubts and end up living with walls which continue to close in on us or we realize that we gave too much importance to these feelings.


Take steps to move beyond the habit of taking things so seriously and push aside that “what if” mindset. Look through the illusion that you have created for yourself, get inspired, and ignore any fearful thoughts about what people will think. Thoughts do not hold power and can’t command our attention; if you watch and let them pass, they float away.

Tell that story.

From the Writer’s Workshop: Write a post in exactly 13 sentences.

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Goodnight Moon…

Whether sparking curiosity, laughter, tears, or inspiration, books are unquestionably powerful. And within young minds that are constantly growing and exploring, their influence is uniquely transformative. When the power of books invokes fear, the resulting efforts to regulate children’s literary content can range from practical to absurd.


Of course, there are definitely times when a book is banned and leaves you with one question: why? There were books like Tropic of Cancer which was sexually over the top for society back in the 1900’s but when some books today are banned, it frankly makes most of us want to laugh. In fact, the entire catalog of banned children’s books is extensive with popular works like Little Red Riding Hood, Harriet the Spy, Junie B. Jones, Captain Underpants and a favorite of mine, Goodnight Moon. All show up on the list for all sorts of creative reasons but, sadly, some book bans are harmful in targeted ways.


The modern book banning process begins with a challenge, a documented request to restrict or remove materials. Any individual or group can initiate a challenge, but more often than not, they come from parents. Book challenges are directed at either a library, a school, or a bookstore. That institution then takes the request into consideration, and if they decide to remove the material from shelves, the book is considered banned. Most bans occur in public libraries and reflect concerns over content being inappropriate, portraying certain industries in a negative light, or including topics too mature for the target age group. But increasingly, that label of inappropriate is being used to censor books that detail the experiences of marginalized communities.


Literature is powerful and good books are often banned because people want society to move in a direction which reflects their own opinions and interests. Yes, it’s always about control over what children are exposed to but also focused on the infulences which are allowed into communities as a whole. That underlying fear of negative influences and a desire to protect the innocence of children is understandable but book banks sweep away opportunities for children to learn, grow, and understand themselves and the world around them.


Such censorship violates the First Amendment right to freedom of speech, some limitations are constitutionally permissible. The courts have told public officials at all levels that they may take community standards into account when deciding whether materials are obscene or pornographic and thus subject to censor. The religious community often believes certain books contain unsuitable topics for children to read and, over the years, have successfully banned books from schools because relgious beliefs go agains the fact that animals in some books talk.’


Both localized and limited in scope, book bans often open alternate ways for children to access censored material. But the fact that most challenges take place at public libraries creates inequity. Children with the most limited access to books are the ones most impacted by their removal from library shelves. Diverse perspectives allow individuals to see themselves and to understand the world around them. So when book banning targets underrepresented authors and topics that are important for marginalized populations, the impact is significant.


A diverse selection of literature in a classroom environment can help explain so many complex and layered real world issues. Carefully tailored instruction for different grade levels doesn’t require the omission of important topics that impact children and their communities. The recent nationwide controversy over critical race theory in curriculum mirrors the problems with book banning; classrooms need to encourage critical thinking and develop children who can tackle the social and environmental issues of present day times. Exposure to a variety of literature is crucial.

Banning books means more than simply taking them off the shelf: such actions threaten the very foundation of our democracy. We have a responsibility to learn from our nation’s history, reject discriminatory attacks by prioritizing inclusive policy change, and protect the fundamental rights to freely speak, think, read, and write, especially for those who are most vulnerable. That censorship happens when one group moves to impose their beliefs on another and censors content or ideas. Banning books is just a type of such censorship, the act can take many forms. Removing a book from some shelf isn’t the only method, requiring parental permission to read it or moving it to a less accessible section are examples of soft censorship. Restricting access to some is intended to invalidate marginalized identities and suppress the opportunity to develop open and honest understandings about differences. That ability to learn about experiences different than our own is then taken from us. We lose the opportunity to respect people from all backgrounds and exist in an environment where everyone feels valued.

From the Writer’s Workshop: Write a few paragraphs describing censorship. Include examples of how, when, and where censorship might occur. Is it ever okay to censor a book? Who has the right to censor a book? Is it ever okay for the government to censor its citizens? 

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