Memories and sketches…

Memories. They have a way of popping up at random times in life. A reason? I’d like to think so, maybe more of a reminder, a needed lookback when you just need to recall things positive, perhaps?

Recently, The Husband (as he’s known in my writing world) needed linseed oil for a repair project. I recalled my high school art case, tucked away up in our attic and gave him exact “PPS” (my version of navigation) directions. Up he went, promptly located the wooden case, and brought it down, asking “when was the last time you opened this?”. I ignored him, and for good reason; he’s like our attic police chief, each time he ventures up there, there is some interrogation from above as to the origins/necessity of every damn thing he ends up climbing over. Come on now, it’s an attic, you know, the epicenter of storage for things seasonal, useful and plumb forgotton about? Kind of like the center console or glove compartment in the car, or, that one drawer in the kitchen?

In any event, my art case was handed to me, the linseed oil given to the attic warden and I pulled out a sketch book while thinking back to art work I left at my late mother’s home years ago. Sadly, during her rampage with Alzheimer’s, much of my work was discarded by her, mainly because she had no idea where it came from or who it belonged to…that person being me.

Tucked in between the pages of the book were two charcoal sketches I did, way back in the 60’s, both of sailboats. One sketch was of a vessel belonging to my late father, a 36′ Gaff Rigged Cutter and that bit of artwork was done from a photograph taken during a cruise on Long Island Sound, here in New York. The odd memory which presented itself was the date I again found these old sketches, July 7th, the very date my father purchased his sailboat, back in 1963.

Memories can be an emotional road trip; even bittersweet ones are better than nothing.

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L. O. P.

Got your attention, did I? I know, I know, you might just be reading the title and wondering what in hell I’m rambling on about now. Read on.

Trust me, there’s nary a ramble to be shared. Not really.

The Husband is now semi-retired and the projects have been stacking up for a few years since he’s been around our homestead more frequently. Honestly, I’m not really complaining; we built our home some thirty-seven years ago, a major undertaking, and several “honey do” projects ended up languishing on life’s back burner.

That has changed.

All these years later, the process first involves extensive research on YouTube, or consulting with several contractor friends, prior to heading over to Home Depot or Lowe’s. In fact, if The Husband doesn’t check in with either home-everything center weekly, they call to check up on him. It’s a symbiotic relationship.

Last year, the cedar siding on our home was repaired (effing woodpeckers), re-caulked, hand-sanded and…re-stained. The bastard birds tend to peck away at cedar in need of staining/sealing; the attraction wanes, even disappears, once the refinishing is complete. In case you were wondering, yes, he sanded the entire house, stem to stern, using a hand sander. Yes, I applaud his brilliant work but question his sanity. Daily.

Attention was recently turned to our front entrance and railroad tie walls. Keep in mind, more than 35 years ago, wood was treated with creosote, as such, it has survived these past years very well, with a few ties in need of replacement, and restaining. One idea begot another and we now have railings on our lower entry steps, topped off with charming solar lights on each handrail post. I share, for your admiration, a photo of TH’s brilliant work.

By the way, L.O.P. stands for Long Overdue Projects; at this moment, I shudder to think what lies ahead. He’s back on YouTube again.

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Slow ride…

Seasons pass more quickly than they used to, it seems.  Perhaps these fleeting days are just the mortality clock, with its ominous ticking, in the background of our lives.

Once, it felt like winter would never release its icy grip as we waited for spring to awaken, followed by summer’s warm embrace.  Autumn would wrap our world in magical colors and we so looked forward to the first snow of the year.  We knew that our ride on the carousel of seasons would continue.  What we didn’t realize was how our perspectives would change as the years suddenly moved faster and we wished that ride went slower.

As we age, we experience time differently having seen and done so many things as time has passed; emotions get in the way of an accurate perception of time. Whatever the case might be, as we get older, our focus remains on the rapid changes surrounding us at a time when we just want life to be in less of a hurry.

Ferris Bueller reminded us when he said “life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around every once in a while, you could miss it.”

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