Nor’beaster…


Why in hell do we feel it necessary to spew out explanations as to why we haven’t blogged in a few days?  I mean… really!!!

Life happens, you know?  And, when these little twists and turns cause us to veer away from our respective blogs, there are always those one or two people who disappear from our reader’s list.  Then, like madmen,  we frantically scurry to create some type of apologetic post as if we OWE these flighty strangers the time of day.  One of my very favorite Bloggers in the world shared one such item yesterday after the frequency of her posts dwindled and several readers took off,  like thieves, in the night.

Know what I owe these people?  My heartfelt wishes that the door didn’t hit them in their asses on their way out!

For anyone else who is still sitting over there on my reader’s couch, thanks for sticking around, this Bud’s for you… along with an explanation.  Just because.

The Northeast was slammed with a beastly storm over the week-end which took down trees, power lines and left assorted amounts of snow across several states.  In upstate New York,  we measured just under 20″ at our home, masses of unseasonal white stuff which is now slowly melting as temps climb.

             

 



 


The only bad thing is that we have no cable, internet or telephone but..we are empowered by the hum of our generator.   As such, I eagerly run out the door to drive the 50 miles to work where I fire-up  my computer and blog, only to find that another reader has bitten the dust.

Whatever.  So long you fair-weather, imaginary friend!

 




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First words…

Those special moments when first words tumble from a baby’s mouth bring so much joy to parents.  How we live to hear  Ma-ma or Da-da, utterances of recognition that soon grow into jumbled, giggly little sentences as the toddler emerges.

Vocabulary grows with the child;  the structure of thoughts molds the individual personality of that person.  Emotions are openly expressed…or deliberately hidden.

For adults,  first true words aren’t spoken until much later,  often through writing.  The person behind a book or a blog can be someone else entirely, miles away from all that developmental dialogue that guided them into adulthood.

Does this make sense to you?

In some ways, I’ve always been a writer.  Stories hid inside my head and page after page waited anxiously to be shared with others. Chapters came out in conversation but never managed to land in print until a few years ago when I started writing my book and  “Another cookie, please!” was born.

Then came the great crash!  Read about it here.  I can’t bear to re-hash my stupidity.

Once my panic subsided from the above incident and I entered the world of blogging,  I realized that I hadn’t lost anything.  Not at all. Those words circled in my head like an airplane waiting to land and since I’ve taken the blog-plunge, it feels as if I’ve been doing it forever.

It’s only been a little over one year.  Imagine that!

I see it every day on sites I visit.  People who start blogging to share mommy or other stories; photography, recipes…you name it, they write about it.  Very often they venture out in response to a writing prompt for fun or to try something new.  Their incredible words appear on the screen and the talent behind a post blossoms, as if it had been hiding, just waiting to be urged into the sunshine.

And then…our words run smack dab into a wall, that dreaded Writer’s Slump/Block..call it what you will. That’s where I’ve been of late and from several other bloggers that I’ve visited, it’s fairly contagious.  Actually, it majorly sucks!


This too, shall pass.  I’m sure of that.  The very fact that I finally published this post (which has been glaring at me from my drafts folder for the last three weeks) is evidence that the writing doldrums are easing.  I’m working hard on getting a whole new bunch of first words ready for the reading world.

Eventually. This post doesn’t count.  Just didn’t want my imaginary friends thinking I stopped yapping via my keyboard.






 

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Never…ever..

Never…tell me the odds or make excuses. 

   I hate that!

Never…tell me what you think I want to hear.  Tell me the truth.

  Always!

Never…assume that you know what my next step will be.

  Big, big mistake!

Never…think that I’ll stand back and allow you to hurt those I love or someone I don’t know at all.

  Doubt me?  Really? 

Never…pass on any moment where you can tell those closest to you that you love them and how important they are in your life.

  Children, especially.   Love is the best positive reinforcement they can receive!

Never…take a sunrise, or sunset, for granted.  Never think they are all the same and that there will always be another.

 9/11/01.  Need I say more?

Never…hesitate to reach out and offer help, or support, to someone in need even if all you have to give is just a kind word or smile.

  “There, but for the grace of God…”?  Think about it.

Never…doubt that we are all put on this earth for a reason and often spend a lifetime trying to discover just what that is.  Never doubt your potential!

  Enjoy the long wild ride that, hopefully, gets you there!  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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