Letting go…

“Time turns flames to embers
You’ll have new Septembers
Everyone of us has messed up too
Minds change like the weather
I hope you remember
Today is never too late to be brand new”

— Taylor Swift, Innocent

Let’s face it, most of us have what may be described as an overwhelming amount of “stuff”. Admit it. We tend to hold onto things for so many reasons, mostly sentimental. Memorabilia, books, photographs, clothing that we’re saving for occasions that never happen, and more items that we think family members might appreciate having someday. Operative word noted…”think”. Of course, some of our most cherished possessions aren’t pricey objects but mementos like concert ticket stubs, plane tickets, and family photos which remind us of times in life that we want to remember. Such simple items can be so much more special than material wealth.

There is something about the changing season, especially September, the annual back-to-school season and a reminder of new beginnings and the need to streamline in our lives. The focus is on all that is truly necessary as life moves ahead. An new perspective on our possessions can take place and we tend to stand back, usually in frustration, and attempt to focus on just what is essential and what can be released. I’ve read about a trend called “No Spend September”, where focus is put on spending and reflecting on belongings that truly hold sentimental value while realizing what is truly necessary and just how much more we really do not need.

September is a time of harvest, of transition, and reflection. As summer ends and fall steps in, this shift encourages us to look forward and identify the deeper meaning of many things. We should take stock of our accomplishments and all that we have in life, especially things which highlight our personal growth and positive experiences.

As trees shed their leaves each fall, we are often reminded of the need to let go, to shed burdens, both physical and emotional, and eliminate items in our lives that no longer serve a purpose. A simple lesson in letting go which many go through after a personal loss as they agonizingly sift through the belongings of a loved one; a painful process but so necessary in order to make room for healing. Letting go isn’t failure, not at all. It’s strength and making room what what inspires us and September seems to help encourage the path for new beginnings.

The crisp air and golden September sunlight can make us feel alive as we venture outside into the colorful stage autumn paints for us each year. The pressures and distractions of summer quickly fade and it’s a cue for us to reset routines, finish the year strong, and become brand new.

From the Writer’s Workshop: Write a post inspired by the word possession. Tell us about something you learned in September.

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