Jennifer Juniper

 

Jennifer Juniper lives upon the hill,
Jennifer Juniper, sitting very still.
Is she sleeping ? I don’t think so.
Is she breathing ? Yes, very low.
Whatcha doing, Jennifer, my love ?

Two seeds were planted early in the 1970’s.  One was the name Jennifer, deeply embedded in my husband’s mind after we went to see Summer of ’42 starring Jennifer O’Neill. 
The second seed?  Well, that turned out to be our own Jennifer, born that year, early one winter morning.

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It was a cold, half-snowy, mostly slushy Friday when I awoke to labor pains that were hard to ignore and rumbling in at about three minutes apart.  A quick call to the doctor and we left in a frantic rush for the hospital.  Upon arriving, I was quickly ushered away to one of the labor rooms as my spouse made a dash for the cafeteria. 
Actually, it was more like an escape. 
Natural Childbirth wasn’t an option back then, at least not in our hospital, and husbands were kept at bay…or in the cafeteria. 
Nope, it was roll them in, dope them up and get that baby delivered.
 
                                     

                                                                     

Years later, my husband still moans about the big breakfast he wasn’t able to enjoy, cursing the hospital staff every time he talks about it.  He still recalls that as I departed for the labor room that morning, one of the nurses told him it will probably be hours before anything happens, so go eat, relax, we’ll call for you when your baby arrives.  And, on that note, he stopped to make a few phone calls, go to the little boy’s room and then the cafeteria where he ordered 4 eggs over easy, bacon, toast, juice and coffee…just to tide him over and help keep up his strength, of course.
 
The very moment that the breakfast of champions was set down in front of his starving gaze, the call came through for the new daddy to head back to the delivery area to meet his first born child.  Focusing through drug-induced foggy eyes, I looked up to see my husband standing by my bed and he was mumbling something about Jennifer being here.
 
Jennifer? 
 
As he got to see her first, that right was assumed, as lord and master of his kingdom, to immediately bestow a name upon her.  Of course, I then had to endure the heartbreaking tale of his missed breakfast because those &*#%* nurses obviously didn’t realize that his daughter was in a hurry to be born.  His sob story about food deprivation was the next, most important, issue on his agenda that day.
 
I grabbed hold of my mental violin and started playing.
 
But, Jennifer had indeed arrived and the name fit her perfectly.  Her father even had a favorite Donovan song that he loved singing to her, one that would become the song they danced to at her wedding years later.
 

Today, I celebrate my oldest daughter and all that she has become; a wonderful wife, loving mother, dedicated high school Principal and presently, COVID Commander for her school district in Florida.  I am beyond proud of her accomplishments, as I am with all my children. 

Someday, I’ll share stories of… Jen, the Great Toyota Arsonist, Jen the Hapless Horseback Rider and Jen’s Magnificent Christmas Tree Caper.

For now, I’ll just wish her the Happiest of Birthdays!!

Jen-shades        

Jennifer Juniper, rides a dappled mare,
Jennifer Juniper, lilacs in her hair.
Is she dreaming ? Yes, I think so.
Is she pretty ? Yes, ever so.
Whatcha doing, Jennifer, my love ?
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Silent, Smiley Sunday!

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One good turn…deserves many hugs

As bloggers we share, vent, offer opinions and sometimes say nothing at all for days while we busy ourselves in getting untangled from life’s occasional snares.  It all comes full circle and suddenly we’re back to writing, catching up with our favs while coping with linkys, blog buttons, follow me/follow you, comments…and, occasionally, we forget an important part of what we all do..saying “Thanks!”

Of course, there is always that fear that you might overlook someone in sharing your list of Top Blogs but, for me, anyone viewing my page can easily look to the right to see everyone I’m fond of.  My blog list isn’t made up of people who clicked on one of my posts, leaving a comment of nothing more than… “Suzy from ….www.suzy’sjockstraps.com….how about a follow back”.  Fuggedaboutit Suzy!  I’ve truly been taking time in getting to know my favs and genuinely enjoy all they post in their blogs.

I’ll bet you clicked on that link, didn’t you?

Well, for today, I’m sharing just a few of who I consider The Best of the Best by saying Thanks and sending a Hug!  I’ve decided to make sure to devote one blog each month to writing about everyone I follow and enjoy, so, please visit again!
                                                                       

Melissa from… “ParanorMel” and …
                        “The (Not-Always) Happy Homemaker Diary
                  
I’ve been honored to be Melissa’s first Featured Blog this past week and I thank her so much for that opportunity!

Have to say I admire this lady, big time; she’s a no BS, direct kinda woman who doesn’t hold back in letting everyone know what she won’t stand for in the world of blogging.  Mess with her and, trust me, she WILL haunt you down! 

But don’t let that stop you from visiting her wonderful blogs! 

Kelli from “Narragansett No. 7
Just cannot say enough positive things about Kelli and her extraordinary writings.  In addition to being a fab Mom of three precious, and active, children, Kelli is a top notch writer.  The stories she shares often venture into topics that keep her followers mesmerized and wanting more.  Recently, in sharing issues involving her young son’s encounters with some demonic school bully, she had scores of people rallying with support.  If anyone was ever made to head a cause and fight the establishment, wearing her favorite pair of Manolo’s, it would be Kelli. 

I’m proud to have her as a friend, appreciate both her support and inspiration.  Head over to her blog, click on that brown box on the right of her page.. and give this lady a VOTE!

Vic from “freckles and fudge

One of the designing women of For The Love Of Blogs, Vic is an energized, exciting lady and what I like best about her is that she’s a sarcasticist (as she describes herself).  Another, no holds barred, blogger who just makes you feel instantly at home when you spend time reading her postings.  Visit her once and you’ll wonder why you didn’t get there sooner!

I like her…..a lot!

  Ashley, Vic & Lindsay from “For The Love Of Blogs

Three extremely talented ladies who are the heart and soul of FTLOB; they go out of their way to make everyone feel at home and find their place, giving advice and support to newbies (such as myself) who drop buttons and links everywhere but where they belong.  Their website is gorgeous with each day having a special feature and chances to connect with other bloggers.

Special thanks to each of you lovely ladies!

And to you, for stopping by today……

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