Eyes of Violet

Elizabeth Taylor, one of the all-time great Hollywood stars, a breathtakingly beautiful woman with eight marriages and seven husbands, a tabloid favorite for gossip and a life full of glamour, romance, jewels and tragedy, passed away today. 

The media cannot come up with enough descriptive words to mark her death;  unparalleled beauty, hopeless romantic, legend, icon and more.  What Elizabeth will most be remembered for is her dedication in championing research for AIDS, doing so while others reacted by backing away and acting negatively towards those suffering with the disease.

She hated being called “Liz” but, for all her fans, referring to her as just Elizabeth made the actress seem distant; everyone who followed her and loved her performances felt a more personal relationship and “Liz” made it seem so real. 

What I remember most are some photos that need no catchy phrases…. 

The original “Father of the Bride” from 1950..
                                                                                       
Ahhhh, the infamous…Maggie the Cat from “Cat On a Hot Tin Roof” from 1958 with Paul Newman –  two sets of magnificent eyes that made fireworks on the big screen


Tell me, could anyone else have worn only a slip and look as if they were ready for a night on the town, needing just a few accessories?
                                                                                  
                                                                       
                                                          
Well, in “Butterfield 8”, this was the only “accessory” Elizabeth needed…

Richard Burton was probably the only man to ever downplay Elizabeth’s beauty, once saying that calling her ““the most beautiful woman in the world is absolute nonsense; she has wonderful eyes but she has a double chin and an overdeveloped chest, and she’s rather short in the leg.”

                       
                                                      

                                                                                       
 

                                                                                                

Elizabeth was married eight times, regarding just two of her husbands as true soul mates.   
Although twice wed to actor Richard Burton,  the one love that broke her heart forever was when husband, famed movie producer, Mike Todd, died suddenly in a tragic air crash; they had one child, a daughter, together and Todd’s death left her devastated, something from which she never fully recovered.

                                                         

Elizabeth was planning on making the flight to New York with her husband but stayed home with a cold, as Mike, an excellent pilot, flew his private plane The Lucky Liz.  Todd’s plane, a twin-engine Lockheed Lodestar, suddenly suffered  engine failure after icing up at a dangerously high altitude. The plane pitched went out of control, fell into a dive and  crashed  near Grants, New Mexico, killing Todd instantly.  Ironically, Todd spoke about the plane being safe and had told friends, just hours before the fatal crash: “Ah, c’mon,  It’s a good, safe plane. I wouldn’t let it crash. I’m taking along a picture of Elizabeth, and I wouldn’t let anything happen to her.”

If it weren’t for the cold that prevented her from flying, she may very well have died that tragic day.. March 22, 1958.

She earned a second Oscar in 1966 for her brilliant portrayal as the shrewish Martha in what I always regarded as a deeply disturbing motion picture, “Who’s Afraid Of Virginia Woolf?”, one of her best performances.  

Her passionate relationship with Richard Burton sparked a worldwide paparazzi frenzy and became one of the great love stories of the 20th century. Yet, given all their love for each other, they couldn’t live together and got married and divorced twice over in a ten year period, finally ending their partnership in 1976
                                           

She was a true professional, who once humorously provided the words for her own epitaph:

           

“Here lies Elizabeth. She hated being called Liz. 
                                        But she lived.” 

Yes, Elizabeth, you did.
   And we lived vicariously along with you.


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Wordless Wednesday – Farewell Liz

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A Major Award!

I’ve been honored with my first major blog award and am basking in the glow.  Really, see?

Colie, from The Colie Chronicles bestowed this wonderful gift recently and I’m grateful, not just for the award; the wonderful blog friendships I’ve been so fortunate to make brighten my days.  There are just so many amazing, creative people that I’ve come to know.

                                                               
They say the first time is always the best, don’t they? 
    Get back to me on that one, will you?

According to the award rules, I’m to share <drum roll>…..
                     Five Random Things about Patty.

Run and grab a beverage, I’ll be here, thinking random thoughts..it might take a few minutes.

I’ll leave some music for you to play in the meantime…

Ready?

Here we go….

1.  Recently, after becoming a Certified Pistol Instructor,  I also became an NRA Range Safety Officer; managed to score 100 on my test and am looking forward to overseeing, and maintaining, safe firearm handling practices at our local shooting range.  Will admit it’s kind of a heady-feeling being the first woman at my hub’s sporting club to take on this role where I get to give commands…  “Load…Is the line ready?…Ready on the Right!…Ready on the Left!….Ready on the Firing Line!…Commence Firing!”   Not sure how my range presence will go over with the male members of the club who aren’t all used to an RSO being on the premises, much less a woman; they’ll just have to grin and bear it.

2.  Italian ceramics, I collect them…bowls, to be specific.  Cooking is a passion of mine and I enjoy presenting various culinary delights in my (too many to admit) assortment of colorful pieces of Mediterranean art.  Come visit me sometime, I’ll take you on a tour of my “Kitchen Stadium”; we’ll sit, have coffee and talk…..a lot!

3.  I HATE Tripe!  Have never had it, won’t ever try it and it scares the bejeezus out of me to even look at it.  I mean, really…does a plate full of the rubbery lining of the stomach of cattle, or other rumiants, appeal to you?  It does?  Well, sorry; hope you understand that I will no longer be following your blog.

Just kidding..

4.  One of my, just for fun, wishes that I have is to find my 1966 Pontiac G.T.O. and take it to the drag strip again.  I admit to still having racing oil running through my veins, love fast cars and miss the days of being a bad ass owner of a muscle car.

5.  The Amalfi Coast…Positano; I want so badly to go there before I leave this earth; my other fun wish.  Was ready to book tickets there just before the economy took a nosedive so this dream now sits on a back burner of my life which, by the way, is speeding by..rapidly.  Life does that.  Once you pass 30, it’s like a ride down a superfast water slide with middle age waiting at the end.  Like, how can I be the age I presently am when my mind still works like that of a 40 year old?  Is that necessarily a bad thing?

Okay, I’m done boring you…..

Now, it’s my turn to spread some blog love; picking out only five out of all my favorite bloggers is extremely difficult.  I dislike leaving anyone out so I’ll have to conjure up something special in order to give more shout-outs to the rest of those I heart.

Crystal at Surviving and thriving in Mom-dom
She writes with a smile in her fingers and shares her ups and downs of family life in raising four dude-devils (as I’ve named them).  She’s an absolute sweetheart!

Pam at True Mommyhood Stories and…
                              Becoming Obesity’s Worst Nightmare.
This is one spunky lady who writes with humor and love about her family and life.  She’s currently on a dedicated weight-loss program where she posts her progress day by day.  Don’t think I could be as brave if I were in her shoes; by the way, she has some really cute ones!

Natalie at My Blog is Boring.
Trust me, this blog is anything but…boring.  Natalie shares joy and sadness and puts a twist on both.  Stop by and visit her but…don’t make her cry.

B.Lee at Clean Sheets on Sundays.
She has such a pleasant blog, full of smiles and beautiful photography.  And…she dreams about James Franco….yeah baby!

Cherie at Lots of Jewels’ Blog.
Cherie always leaves sweet comments, is so darn creative and loves antiquing, recently shared a fabulous lamp find that still has me drooling.  Actually, I’m jealous, all drool aside.


Again, to Colie, thank you…..you rock, pretty lady!

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